2 \4 t) o) O# [0 X
mso-ascii-font-family:Tahoma;mso-hansi-font-family:Tahoma;mso-bidi-font-family:% ]. a1 u" X: Q
Tahoma;color:#006EFE;mso-font-kerning:0pt">今日圣诞，老猫先祝大家圣诞快乐，虽然是洋人的节日：）下午贾陆英老师继续在老秘网 I( d' v9 p% C- A, _
mso-font-kerning:0pt">QQ! p, M( h- M& ~font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:Tahoma;mso-hansi-font-family:Tahoma;
3 r1 n8 _/ [1 O& D ^mso-bidi-font-family:Tahoma;color:#006EFE;mso-font-kerning:0pt">群“重温经典读书会”49231471辅导我们学习《论语》。贾陆英老师一直记挂着我们这群“大学生”，原本这节课是安排在周三下午的，但贾老师届时另有要事，所以今日上午便特地在群里发出预告，提前到今日下午开课。有此良师，夫复何求？闲话少叙，立即把上课实录整理奉上。8 {5 B) `: c# ~' M, m4 o( x" N* Fmso-font-kerning:0pt">
( Q) L4 |7 @. R) F2 U H) }. M
) G! {; j5 n( S; t; ~' x5 U1 R* S/ `- F0 J* v; \; S10.5pt;font-family:Tahoma;color:#006EFE;mso-font-kerning:0pt">
6 m6 x* v0 M" {1 t2 s% t
9 j! i/ \. g7 [) z: W5 F! ]* T# Z2 [5 f' S3 ], l& H* F( K
font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:Tahoma;mso-hansi-font-family:Tahoma;6 Q1 n; e1 \% }5 D c6 j) W' V7 l
mso-bidi-font-family:Tahoma;color:#006EFE;mso-font-kerning:0pt">贾陆英：5 D5 V8 E y: O8 I9 c! ~
mso-font-kerning:0pt">
! G- _! B7 P) \7 s0 m6 N8 M
. E/ U# f9 T& c# x. E {. ^6 }
' P T, A8 \8 c7 E
10.5pt;font-family:Tahoma;color:#006EFE;mso-font-kerning:0pt">
, A6 }" q2 S! \2 m+ C9 e
e$ L; }3 t5 e( H! |2 A( a% `& x+ e
font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:Tahoma;mso-hansi-font-family:Tahoma;% X% N3 r) k+ e9 z7 ^. l: o
mso-bidi-font-family:Tahoma;color:black;mso-font-kerning:0pt">今天下午，我们学习讨论《论语》为政篇第. M- |+ R9 Z8 v: Emso-font-kerning:0pt">57 b' H" B* k' `2 E( J( F! ^font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:Tahoma;mso-hansi-font-family:Tahoma;# F5 S) J8 P/ @9 ^$ o
mso-bidi-font-family:Tahoma;color:black;mso-font-kerning:0pt">章：$ ]1 }! N1 K" S# E4 i- G
mso-font-kerning:0pt">
; F: @# B6 H- K/ |: o( M, y6 v
6 y& F6 H* X9 \
2•5 * v; m9 C3 \, F! u& `; w
Tahoma;mso-hansi-font-family:Tahoma;mso-bidi-font-family:Tahoma;color:black;' R# v$ X% Y, R0 @ ^2 Z$ N9 M
mso-font-kerning:0pt">孟懿子问孝，子曰：9 |3 R( n$ S) x) N" y- b. Tmso-font-kerning:0pt">“+ B" s& ^2 D8 R
mso-hansi-font-family:Tahoma;mso-bidi-font-family:Tahoma;color:black;
# a) d( V% e$ f' V7 i5 imso-font-kerning:0pt">无违。3 ?3 V3 p' R: t+ W2 I1 _, W
mso-font-kerning:0pt">”6 M: S( D6 l' K: a7 m7 x3 T
mso-hansi-font-family:Tahoma;mso-bidi-font-family:Tahoma;color:black;: |) t1 ]2 t6 m, c |& Q
mso-font-kerning:0pt">樊迟御，子告之曰：! a# m+ R. ?5 o3 _: A7 m( v: Z
mso-font-kerning:0pt">“- ^/ _7 E% U4 I
mso-hansi-font-family:Tahoma;mso-bidi-font-family:Tahoma;color:black;
/ I. \* p9 D3 c4 O( x2 o8 h1 V- @mso-font-kerning:0pt">孟孙问孝于我，我对曰无违。, I P" v4 t, b1 M9 l" i5 D4 \color:black;mso-font-kerning:0pt">”6 `" l5 q3 {: }
Tahoma;mso-hansi-font-family:Tahoma;mso-bidi-font-family:Tahoma;color:black;
, z a4 l$ [/ w: E8 H1 p5 u1 ?5 Bmso-font-kerning:0pt">樊迟曰：! |! e- ^, S5 X% P/ D2 A
mso-font-kerning:0pt">“# N9 c% g" B8 D* bmso-hansi-font-family:Tahoma;mso-bidi-font-family:Tahoma;color:black;/ y& u9 g5 L' C% N2 ~9 H. U4 A
mso-font-kerning:0pt">何谓也？4 @( ^3 ?) O/ G/ w' Vmso-font-kerning:0pt">”7 c0 u) O: I$ B8 x* E$ B2 u
mso-hansi-font-family:Tahoma;mso-bidi-font-family:Tahoma;color:black;. g9 I$ F2 ]( V) M1 d1 b+ e" B
mso-font-kerning:0pt">子曰：4 r$ n6 B* E0 Gmso-font-kerning:0pt">“$ Z# l7 ]4 f. `4 z8 Amso-hansi-font-family:Tahoma;mso-bidi-font-family:Tahoma;color:black;
9 L, i8 `/ h! j/ V$ Ymso-font-kerning:0pt">生，事之以礼；死，葬之以礼，祭之以礼。& E1 Q* }, A, S& ^6 ]) Z* P. I! _4 e: }color:black;mso-font-kerning:0pt">”
* P0 L4 I' _$ i; j+ _" g) x( i F
3 o% a: ^0 @3 k. |" L" {& }1 ]0 I9 O7 k8 ~% V4 U7 c) i10.5pt;font-family:Tahoma;color:black;mso-font-kerning:0pt">
& E0 X3 D. j8 s6 q3 g/ L" }# {0 GTahoma;mso-hansi-font-family:Tahoma;mso-bidi-font-family:Tahoma;color:black;2 G. D s G+ |& ]" Y& \
mso-font-kerning:0pt">孟懿子：鲁国大夫，三家之一，姓仲孙，名何忌，懿是谥号。他的父亲孟僖子临死时要他向孔子学礼。无违：不要违背礼。樊迟：孔子的学生，名须，字子迟，比孔子小四十六岁。御：驾驶马车。孟孙：指孟懿子。# W7 M" S% \( B. E# ?
mso-font-kerning:0pt">
5 X: r. R+ m; t
! j+ p, l% h- r/ z* F) Z v7 r0 w6 ^ r( [9 I
10.5pt;font-family:Tahoma;color:black;mso-font-kerning:0pt">
7 y+ `4 i0 m2 t" @4 s
5 R! K7 n, f) j( [0 Y! T: _Tahoma;mso-hansi-font-family:Tahoma;mso-bidi-font-family:Tahoma;color:black;
0 j! O' i4 k, rmso-font-kerning:0pt">孟懿子请教孔子什么是孝，孔子说：- P! B1 z- d c0 n& o7 F
10.5pt;font-family:Tahoma;color:black;mso-font-kerning:0pt">“4 s0 C' g3 F/ n y8 u! J q
mso-hansi-font-family:Tahoma;mso-bidi-font-family:Tahoma;color:black;% \8 {7 M2 c4 G3 g
mso-font-kerning:0pt">孝就是不要违背礼。3 u' Z! L! z/ w7 z) N0 x& N10.5pt;font-family:Tahoma;color:black;mso-font-kerning:0pt">”4 e0 s q/ H) ]' W! amso-hansi-font-family:Tahoma;mso-bidi-font-family:Tahoma;color:black;
7 {6 R7 k( x6 E- {" w1 fmso-font-kerning:0pt">一天，樊迟给孔子驾车，孔子告诉他说：' h( p) U; H: j# Y
0pt">"$ `% r- [2 b3 p" ~: j9 w! O% S
mso-ascii-font-family:Tahoma;mso-hansi-font-family:Tahoma;mso-bidi-font-family:
" W3 u' `* H! f. N: gTahoma;color:black;mso-font-kerning:0pt">孟孙问我什么是孝，我回答他说不要违背礼。7 J2 B, ^9 E2 x. \. ^& J. Zmso-font-kerning:0pt">"' O" E+ j# f' b/ x" `font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:Tahoma;mso-hansi-font-family:Tahoma;% i% i6 T. M7 J( S! \3 p; q( t
mso-bidi-font-family:Tahoma;color:black;mso-font-kerning:0pt">樊迟说：6 \8 o5 F5 R, Z$ p0 Cmso-font-kerning:0pt">"! \$ I8 y9 {* D7 G" x$ e9 W
font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:Tahoma;mso-hansi-font-family:Tahoma;
$ `$ H' r$ R$ ~8 U0 b+ U" f4 |mso-bidi-font-family:Tahoma;color:black;mso-font-kerning:0pt">这是什么意思呢% ?. \4 L) t" {3 j/ B- X0 imso-font-kerning:0pt">?" 0 [# Y3 x& a+ \
font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:Tahoma;mso-hansi-font-family:Tahoma;5 H2 J O/ x4 W, i7 l5 k1 ?& m
mso-bidi-font-family:Tahoma;color:black;mso-font-kerning:0pt">孔子说：, X+ a' T x8 |3 E+ ^
mso-font-kerning:0pt">"6 k5 }/ u* E4 Qfont-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:Tahoma;mso-hansi-font-family:Tahoma;/ q& F) ~" e% v" k) c- v
mso-bidi-font-family:Tahoma;color:black;mso-font-kerning:0pt">父母活着的时候，要按礼侍奉他们；父母死了，要按礼来埋葬他们，祭祀他们。4 n# F, V; z* Q& ]2 u( b( ^: Nmso-font-kerning:0pt">"
+ Y: s/ n7 H# \# a$ T
: i2 b' F& d% P% {/ i
' c ^! t4 n& t" w10.5pt;font-family:Tahoma;color:black;mso-font-kerning:0pt">
4 R }+ P2 h& ]4 I* S; Y% y7 {2 N. ]1 J9 s$ k# x0 r; s
10.5pt;font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:Tahoma;mso-hansi-font-family:Tahoma;& Q7 G7 l+ m" F7 m- ~
mso-bidi-font-family:Tahoma;color:black;mso-font-kerning:0pt">问：怎样理解孝就是5 x6 {. u# U6 K5 g* ~" k) U, t10.5pt;font-family:Tahoma;color:black;mso-font-kerning:0pt">“" k" Z: G8 L9 [font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:Tahoma;mso-hansi-font-family:Tahoma;
8 [& k# ]# P5 h/ zmso-bidi-font-family:Tahoma;color:black;mso-font-kerning:0pt">无违8 t* w2 V9 f& }$ [! a
10.5pt;font-family:Tahoma;color:black;mso-font-kerning:0pt">”; r8 U- H5 ]( x5 d2 tfont-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:Tahoma;mso-hansi-font-family:Tahoma;8 q2 F4 i6 F3 }+ o2 O4 T" i) y
mso-bidi-font-family:Tahoma;color:black;mso-font-kerning:0pt">？2 c1 p2 Y# D$ P$ c- }' W: V9 ?
10.5pt;font-family:Tahoma;color:black;mso-font-kerning:0pt">
' D+ r2 v. z/ S: V8 j
* r5 M0 G9 S% P j& D8 \; \& b2 F
# X& W$ G+ g6 m10.5pt;font-family:Tahoma;color:black;mso-font-kerning:0pt">
; G1 A# b( B; y- y: f
% X! H- G9 d5 |; F0 PTahoma;mso-hansi-font-family:Tahoma;mso-bidi-font-family:Tahoma;color:black;7 t7 @+ k. T7 r# I5 }" o' X
mso-font-kerning:0pt">答：孔子教人是很讲针对性的。孟懿子不能遵从他父亲贤而好礼之教，所以孔子针对他讲得0 n8 `% N, x' |' L: M2 Q* Z
mso-font-kerning:0pt">“- E0 [, N" I" k1 D, k5 r- Pfont-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:Tahoma;mso-hansi-font-family:Tahoma;
S) A* a3 W7 |: ] e; Qmso-bidi-font-family:Tahoma;color:black;mso-font-kerning:0pt">无违% u1 b, H; q% j" g' y |* q- K M
mso-font-kerning:0pt">”7 X& J) M8 E* Z3 g- `font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:Tahoma;mso-hansi-font-family:Tahoma;
2 l! I; x* s, [4 | D& }) zmso-bidi-font-family:Tahoma;color:black;mso-font-kerning:0pt">，就是不要违背父亲的教诲，这是就具体情况所做的回答。但是就普遍事理而言，孔子讲1 h# I/ ?" _; ^8 Z( f1 r6 ?
mso-font-kerning:0pt">“) C. ?% r; C, `& @6 @1 A! l
font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:Tahoma;mso-hansi-font-family:Tahoma;# w8 Q0 n8 u0 G2 K4 F; X2 M" a9 p
mso-bidi-font-family:Tahoma;color:black;mso-font-kerning:0pt">无违, W8 S& z* N4 m, G" Y3 ]% amso-font-kerning:0pt">”$ j2 f+ O9 b8 J% |4 e; i. s' {font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:Tahoma;mso-hansi-font-family:Tahoma;
! _" P, P4 ]/ [# Q( t1 ^9 _, p) Pmso-bidi-font-family:Tahoma;color:black;mso-font-kerning:0pt">，强调要以礼事亲，不可违背于礼，, b& q* j$ t1 P. X5 S& f" a: C6 emso-font-kerning:0pt">“% x3 z) s- `" L( j r
font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:Tahoma;mso-hansi-font-family:Tahoma;
5 a9 F& o' o/ _( t+ L- K: tmso-bidi-font-family:Tahoma;color:black;mso-font-kerning:0pt">生，事之以礼。死，葬之以礼，祭之以礼。4 C" P* h+ ^. d4 jmso-font-kerning:0pt">”+ A/ |! v1 q( |+ s' J
font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:Tahoma;mso-hansi-font-family:Tahoma;- w5 ~) S1 f" S
mso-bidi-font-family:Tahoma;color:black;mso-font-kerning:0pt">父母在世，如有不合乎礼的言行，子女是不应当顺从的，而要以合乎礼的方法劝谏，这是对父母真正的爱护、尊敬。孝的精神，还应当体现在父母去世以后，要按照礼制去安葬他们、祭祀他们，这才算子女尽孝有始有终。, \: j1 }" S+ G& |+ Y B) T" ]% U
mso-font-kerning:0pt">
8 v' S: B( ^8 t/ v4 z$ k0 Q8 j& S0 h9 f+ u K9 C" j) @: h
$ @. d" P1 [ a5 n3 Z
10.5pt;font-family:Tahoma;color:black;mso-font-kerning:0pt">
& _: |3 X% f2 i; n S' l
- ]3 A5 Y @" R; R7 t5 K10.5pt;font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:Tahoma;mso-hansi-font-family:Tahoma;
" C) X% W7 S5 {/ o+ p3 @+ Mmso-bidi-font-family:Tahoma;color:black;mso-font-kerning:0pt">问：为什么说以礼事亲才是孝？# X4 s$ ?; [" a3 c
10.5pt;font-family:Tahoma;color:black;mso-font-kerning:0pt">
8 `6 ?9 J) P. `& }- e. Y6 Y8 F9 t8 O8 p/ M; \, t* v
% a! P0 g+ t, k4 G
10.5pt;font-family:Tahoma;color:black;mso-font-kerning:0pt">
* W0 F6 T+ M! d u- z! U( m# l/ f# o% Q. H+ J
Tahoma;mso-hansi-font-family:Tahoma;mso-bidi-font-family:Tahoma;color:black;
8 z) {7 {% A% umso-font-kerning:0pt">答：本章谈孝的重点是，孝要落实到礼上。孔子讲仁与礼的关系，一方面强调仁是礼的核心，礼应当体现仁的精神；另一方面又强调，礼的规定体现了仁的要求，依礼而行就是仁。据此，是否做到了孝，要以是否依礼而行来衡量。& N2 H8 R) o6 xmso-font-kerning:0pt">
7 c* e) v, x1 _3 ^! L) z
7 d( V. o8 W1 P8 k7 f& |& I9 L+ Q, K2 q, h4 l' _4 L% a
10.5pt;font-family:Tahoma;color:black;mso-font-kerning:0pt">
6 X0 P# H2 @4 ^
]; z6 I+ u# L( c0 U3 j# W5 f' D1 O1 O9 t& C) F. q2 L: qfont-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:Tahoma;mso-hansi-font-family:Tahoma;# K1 O: X s0 m( k8 X9 }$ c( d
mso-bidi-font-family:Tahoma;color:#006EFE;mso-font-kerning:0pt">小风飕飕地：' Y4 D: N& A" E1 F2 i, n
mso-font-kerning:0pt">
: g' s! Y$ L8 W/ j0 r2 x9 k
) r4 i) R$ m$ q. u7 M$ r J4 m+ t3 O7 y' L
10.5pt;font-family:Tahoma;color:#006EFE;mso-font-kerning:0pt">
% w+ Z' U6 a. Z4 o m
0 O! j* h0 o0 W# q( c5 g, D9 ]8 j1 Y/ smso-ascii-font-family:Tahoma;mso-hansi-font-family:Tahoma;mso-bidi-font-family:3 Y# o) ]! q+ V
Tahoma;color:black;mso-font-kerning:0pt">孝最重要的是心敬，心敬外化出来的表现是礼遇！反过来说，虽然礼遇有加未必出于心敬，但若是不加礼遇那就一定是心不敬，也就是不孝啦。所以外在的礼对于孝来说很重要，如若无礼那必然是不孝！对父母尽孝道，是义- R7 a/ O" _; m' t: }; [mso-font-kerning:0pt">
9 N: ]; t6 p( T: w. v. X2 q- g1 }
1 O& t: l/ ~8 }: o
Tahoma;mso-hansi-font-family:Tahoma;mso-bidi-font-family:Tahoma;color:black;
3 |! N# s' ]/ V( }mso-font-kerning:0pt">更准确些！& y, R3 ^$ d3 b5 w! W+ ?
10.5pt;font-family:Tahoma;color:black;mso-font-kerning:0pt">
3 n, ~: e2 Q8 [* G- a$ I$ w: Y( I& K% J4 L2 ^4 m' K
1 s. S5 ?0 S5 l0 ]10.5pt;font-family:Tahoma;color:black;mso-font-kerning:0pt">
, e: }6 d8 x/ T9 U* H! k( o! d* [6 F+ X* Z; V( V
7 r Q, e& {% `10.5pt;font-family:Tahoma;color:black;mso-font-kerning:0pt">
9 l; K7 W# ]* V& Z% Q6 e1 k
' U1 O w& I0 p9 r" m4 l M% N j a! x$ ]6 ?0 rmso-ascii-font-family:Tahoma;mso-hansi-font-family:Tahoma;mso-bidi-font-family:5 R3 _* n) L8 V2 b6 |/ V6 a
Tahoma;color:#006EFE;mso-font-kerning:0pt">贾陆英：. R, x3 f, A' x. ?: n: N, \3 M8 s* `0 w
0pt">
0 O4 @2 b* b! s* D0 a, }; G) }! h9 a) Q: \% K% F9 v1 h0 z4 I
) F4 c2 b7 e9 O3 fTahoma;color:#006EFE;mso-font-kerning:0pt">
1 Y( X. E+ ]; s& X: o# y
% o1 V, M. D2 x5 r. ^3 S" ~5 G& b% [5 [! Q9 y# y2 r
mso-ascii-font-family:Tahoma;mso-hansi-font-family:Tahoma;mso-bidi-font-family:7 C8 q9 y5 ^+ G& K z
Tahoma;color:black;mso-font-kerning:0pt">孝最重要的是心敬，心敬外化出来的表现是礼遇！# d; m- S* `( L$ F4 `2 @6 Wmso-font-kerning:0pt">——2 j5 M( ]. _8 u% Efont-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:Tahoma;mso-hansi-font-family:Tahoma;
) N8 d; L. p" }mso-bidi-font-family:Tahoma;color:black;mso-font-kerning:0pt">赞同。孝的本质，是发自内心的对父母的恭敬和感恩之情。有此心，才会有孝行。! s, E# O! G( y/ z* A: L3 @( gmso-font-kerning:0pt">
* R; a# Y4 B9 k0 H6 B- @9 @8 E+ W. {6 X9 l/ t
& h3 X; p( O( CTahoma;color:black;mso-font-kerning:0pt">
' L" @" y* @/ ~) Z2 G8 K# l
# B6 k& V+ z& l2 Q% N( }
9 _" e. Z- {" `# Z+ [) C
font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:Tahoma;mso-hansi-font-family:Tahoma;
+ Z0 y8 w* w2 `% V% Cmso-bidi-font-family:Tahoma;color:#006EFE;mso-font-kerning:0pt">夕惕若：( Z5 t# @( l3 Y% Z8 B8 \ w0 P# w& Gmso-font-kerning:0pt">
' k& u1 R, m k; Y H. e! Q# {( Z1 H- I# x0 t
6 g. K# a* C/ L3 R10.5pt;font-family:Tahoma;color:#006EFE;mso-font-kerning:0pt">
* s& C+ ]- I) N J3 _
8 {% t' k( Z9 z8 T) Q
, v5 E4 e& Y. _% l4 j! fmso-ascii-font-family:Tahoma;mso-hansi-font-family:Tahoma;mso-bidi-font-family:
7 V9 |9 p1 k W* t4 l7 O6 S6 ^Tahoma;color:black;mso-font-kerning:0pt">贾老，昨天晚生正好读到战国时期儒家关于礼、丧、祭的论述7 s$ Z# H3 x, W# e1 B1 xmso-font-kerning:0pt">24 L: e, x" k2 u% O, g0 Jfont-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:Tahoma;mso-hansi-font-family:Tahoma;
4 v2 J9 `; m/ _, M xmso-bidi-font-family:Tahoma;color:black;mso-font-kerning:0pt">对父母的孝道，是义。如何尽孝，是礼。如何行礼，就是生而不违，去世行丧礼，祭祀行祭礼。对父母的孝，绝对不能行功利主义，现在社会上很多人在父母有能力的时候，和颜悦色，等到父母年迈无力，不能给自己帮上什么了，就放弃赡养父母，这是一种巧言令色，有所图谋。这三点做到都是不简单的，先说不违，能够做到遵循父母的教导，按照父母意愿行事之人有几？晚生做不到，起码现在说，不孝有三无后为大，父母成天逼婚，依旧违背了。老吾老以及人之老啊" @7 Q, Y B* L
mso-font-kerning:0pt">
6 {+ n J6 b8 o+ P C, i: ?/ w7 @1 J) I
# w- h0 `+ s& b* R5 t7 F
Tahoma;color:black;mso-font-kerning:0pt">
" F# Y9 f; }9 h4 \7 Y+ ]# Q- b
8 l, N* o, G2 q |6 H( l% i, _. j v8 u- F* j6 I* a/ [
mso-ascii-font-family:Tahoma;mso-hansi-font-family:Tahoma;mso-bidi-font-family:
( c" m% I1 H& t: VTahoma;color:#006EFE;mso-font-kerning:0pt">乃群：- w6 a9 F# y! \+ R
0pt">
$ ]) m9 }, z( g" A- Y# J( \
* O' e* s* i4 k. }( v
' S3 p$ q" _/ O, B* i$ {
Tahoma;color:#006EFE;mso-font-kerning:0pt">
9 I' I) a9 ]5 A9 D$ ^4 A
. e. U6 x& y2 S3 V
+ H' _8 h$ p7 q2 K! M/ m0 K! \mso-ascii-font-family:Tahoma;mso-hansi-font-family:Tahoma;mso-bidi-font-family:
. w b% c6 m4 g. L OTahoma;color:black;mso-font-kerning:0pt">孝，如今还在于与父母交心、沟通，体谅父母的难处，分担父母的责任。现在社会中，生前不依礼事亲，死后大操大办的现象很普遍，成为了陋习，也造成了很大的负担。$ | l3 ~# u; n; E3 s* H3 v) i. k
mso-font-kerning:0pt">
7 p' {8 E, o$ Y- e6 Q3 i1 ]8 t+ Z. q s+ Y! c6 ~
G l0 ]* [# JTahoma;color:black;mso-font-kerning:0pt">
孝经
7 j8 W5 F; k; b8 o( _$ q+ p( v5 C8 _
- M2 I {3 Z& z$ C4 \% R0 B6 @- l2 fmso-ascii-font-family:Tahoma;mso-hansi-font-family:Tahoma;mso-bidi-font-family:
7 U1 l5 M4 \7 g- R B0 s0 dTahoma;color:#006EFE;mso-font-kerning:0pt">贾陆英：. @% G2 ~: m: o5 D* C" B( p0pt">
/ i! I5 J& m T" `- L1 G& v" k$ n
c* e ^, I7 w# L) {) E" z, [9 f, Y' O/ ~6 ~1 z4 |; f
Tahoma;color:#006EFE;mso-font-kerning:0pt">
$ c" F7 x- w. v! g3 x V
9 j9 L e$ r/ E- o/ I
- i; h, p1 j" l: g U8 ^) C- ~mso-ascii-font-family:Tahoma;mso-hansi-font-family:Tahoma;mso-bidi-font-family:( a' E, M1 `% L7 K
Tahoma;color:black;mso-font-kerning:0pt">孝，如今还在于与父母交心、沟通，体谅父母的难处，分担父母的责任。& |4 y/ J+ J( _) m9 v
mso-font-kerning:0pt">——& M$ d$ ~4 @ k4 V% ]font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:Tahoma;mso-hansi-font-family:Tahoma;
* X/ l) Q/ K0 e" n u1 xmso-bidi-font-family:Tahoma;color:black;mso-font-kerning:0pt">对，这是从情感上关心父母，是尽孝的重要内容。生，事之以礼。死，葬之以礼，祭之以礼。9 U. {" h/ M( W+ P% z
mso-font-kerning:0pt">——" N9 Q/ n( P, Q& Jfont-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:Tahoma;mso-hansi-font-family:Tahoma;
" E& a) B5 c6 e2 G Tmso-bidi-font-family:Tahoma;color:black;mso-font-kerning:0pt">对父母的孝道，是义。如何尽孝，是礼。如何行礼，就是生而不违，去世行丧礼，祭祀行祭礼。《孝经》说：- C9 I. g: Q1 ^/ R! ]
mso-font-kerning:0pt">“, G2 O* v8 S7 F! f a
font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:Tahoma;mso-hansi-font-family:Tahoma;
2 |6 t" Y# B% c5 O1 |mso-bidi-font-family:Tahoma;color:black;mso-font-kerning:0pt">礼者，敬而已矣。故敬其父，则子悦；敬其兄，则弟悦；敬其君，则臣悦；敬一人，而千万人悦。所敬者寡，而悦者众，此之谓要道也。. b. M& K$ ?8 x$ @5 Q
mso-font-kerning:0pt">”7 Q" I- U, {) B5 \
font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:Tahoma;mso-hansi-font-family:Tahoma;
# k* E% H% Z# ]0 d8 L w$ e& t0 Imso-bidi-font-family:Tahoma;color:black;mso-font-kerning:0pt">礼的内在依据是孝悌，而外在表现，就是一个0 r0 l4 K+ s+ Y
mso-font-kerning:0pt">“7 S* G$ m+ d% `. S7 |6 v# Ifont-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:Tahoma;mso-hansi-font-family:Tahoma;
% l- p% C$ P7 a/ I" }mso-bidi-font-family:Tahoma;color:black;mso-font-kerning:0pt">敬 v2 X( e7 F% Y& g3 U: O1 ^" Q; _mso-font-kerning:0pt">”% K& i; k9 I+ s8 H- sfont-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:Tahoma;mso-hansi-font-family:Tahoma;
& _# \" W: s3 z+ A) j+ q' {( _mso-bidi-font-family:Tahoma;color:black;mso-font-kerning:0pt">字。所以，如能尊敬他的父亲，那么其儿子就会喜悦；如能尊敬他的兄长，那么其弟弟就会喜悦；如能尊敬他的国君，那么其臣下就会喜悦。尊敬的是一个人，却能使千万人喜悦。所敬者虽然只是少数，而喜悦的人却有千千万万，这就是为什么把推行孝悌之道和礼乐教化称为6 ~# [% D8 M+ ]( d3 Mmso-font-kerning:0pt">“+ i" ]6 U9 X8 O' z( I' g- [+ P" Z! F* W
font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:Tahoma;mso-hansi-font-family:Tahoma;8 M8 f1 n' W1 p& F" B m
mso-bidi-font-family:Tahoma;color:black;mso-font-kerning:0pt">要道2 k& x) a. I+ m5 E% ]6 [. y/ p
mso-font-kerning:0pt">”0 V! C! N# u+ o D+ \7 a
font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:Tahoma;mso-hansi-font-family:Tahoma;. M. P! ^& \% n& t* v
mso-bidi-font-family:Tahoma;color:black;mso-font-kerning:0pt">的意义所在啊。6 L* M J( c% |4 P% `
mso-font-kerning:0pt">
- D* n! N, Z5 }# r- t) d9 v$ K. u. C- ]; ^. I: y9 s, a* S2 G
- n! `% n. `+ K! O
Tahoma;color:black;mso-font-kerning:0pt">
, [+ |8 Y5 ~5 M
( _ `" P8 n. L U" L9 Y8 l- K3 ~7 g6 X( K
mso-ascii-font-family:Tahoma;mso-hansi-font-family:Tahoma;mso-bidi-font-family:6 u) \1 {; b3 j" v, j
Tahoma;color:#006EFE;mso-font-kerning:0pt">舍得：) e: T9 { C% Y- ]: r: `0pt">
" T4 ~2 y; j) E R+ f. ]1 f
& P2 {; X% s7 t3 o, W/ a6 m# A4 b$ W( G" x5 @* DTahoma;color:#006EFE;mso-font-kerning:0pt">
X. n4 D, |: M6 k1 k& r
4 @6 ]' ^0 |/ ~7 C" h2 `! l7 O. i; k
mso-ascii-font-family:Tahoma;mso-hansi-font-family:Tahoma;mso-bidi-font-family:6 [+ ?( a, b8 k" c
Tahoma;color:black;mso-font-kerning:0pt">嗯，这就是不孝有三的第一种。事谓阿意曲从，陷亲不义，一不孝也。我们通常将的孝顺的/ _& l6 I4 f5 o" }* G# \7 z
mso-font-kerning:0pt">“" ]: N; H2 K% n- l- M1 x
font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:Tahoma;mso-hansi-font-family:Tahoma;
]: ~/ Q7 c+ L, C2 l% X& K6 u+ @7 ^mso-bidi-font-family:Tahoma;color:black;mso-font-kerning:0pt">顺/ e4 a6 m/ {6 s: ~4 u* kmso-font-kerning:0pt">”/ m: e% C$ q( R/ ^( R7 i+ R7 ? T$ ~8 ^
font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:Tahoma;mso-hansi-font-family:Tahoma;
* ~7 j- p4 H: w6 i9 D. kmso-bidi-font-family:Tahoma;color:black;mso-font-kerning:0pt">其实就是不违的意思4 E1 @. x. @8 M) o! X( Xmso-font-kerning:0pt">
5 A( \+ t& F0 O$ Q3 N" N
" s; U) d, _+ o+ v6 [1 } U4 x9 W2 s' |Tahoma;color:black;mso-font-kerning:0pt">
120 两文银
回复本帖可获得 3 两文银奖励! 每人限 1 次 
提升卡
置顶卡
沉默卡
喧嚣卡
变色卡
抢沙发
千斤顶
显身卡
300x180 AD
